Thank you Nicolau for reading my story! I think the suffering we experience is all derived from loss, and that one of the natural responses is to avoid change which prolongs the suffering. While it’s not desirable, suffering is part of life but we all take on a lot of unnecessary suffering, a lot of burden that is not ours to bear. I hope this answers your question; and thanks again for taking the time to ask it! All my best, Christen